Balance is a key quality in
my life as symbolized by the yin/yang of
As such, I span a broad range, and I'd prefer someone who understands that
most things can be appropriate at different times.
I describe myself
as adventurous and romantic,
strong and gentle, playful, fun and mature, spiritual, fit, and
a non-smoker. I'm fairly deep, intelligent, observant,
reflective, soft-spoken, and 'sweet' (I've been
I like to do lots of different things:
wine and dining,
exploring and day trips, hiking, sailing, movies, window
shopping, fairs, social cooking, snuggling, kissing--sharing
life with one special person!
To provide a few specifics about myself...
- I'm 5'9, 178; I run almost every day.
- I was raised with manners--open doors, say please/thank you etc.
- I am not a neatnik but not horribly messy either.
- NOT a Type A! I do love organization, but I'm too lazy to implement it!
- I *have* a tux but usually wear jeans.
- I love gourmet or can just as easily eat at BK but prefer anything
- I prefer many long weekends over one big trip (unless it's Italy or
- I am a TV/movie type person; don't read much except for politics or
- I listen to NPR in the afternoon and Stern in the morning.
- I'm 50% Yin or Omega vs 50% Alpha or Yang.
All in all, a mixed bag of a lot of different things
For the astrologically curious
, I am a Scorpio
Moon, Mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Libra, and Mars in
Scorpio. I'd be happy to do yours if you're interested
:) For those who don't already know, you really need to look at
all 9 planets to see the individual beyond the broad generalization
of your sun sign (well, at least 5 planets!)
Some things from my past:
used to own a motorcycle; taught at a sailing camp on Cape Cod;
owned a 31' sailboat; took flying lessons; skydived--3
times; rode horses well--competed in dressage; spent one night
in jail (for an old, unpaid speeding ticket); have driven down
the Cote d'Or of France in October; and sailed around the
BVI's, and have participated in a few different 'seminars'
over the years including Tony Robbins, Insight, Creating
Success, MSIA, Reiki, and meditation at the Omega Institute.
I have two wonderful boys
, 23 & 25,
the older is now living up in Boston and the younger is still living with me but looking to move out soon. I've been through two marriages now: one 30yrs ago for 8yrs; then 10yrs passed before another one for 4yrs, but the 2nd was mostly about visa requirements - not enough time to decide if we were right for marriage..
Why am I here? I am seeking
a happy, healthy,
loving relationship, full of passion, play, and contentment
with a beautiful woman whom I adore and respect. I
don't 'date around'
and would prefer to
find one special person to spend my life with. I am determined
and patient to find the right match, but I dearly miss the
intimacy, sharing, support, and companionship that two people
can give to each other. In fact I've had less than a handful of
1st dates in the last 10 months. It's too easy to get into 'a'
relationship and it's such a waste of time if it's not someone
you' re going to spend the rest of your life with. Why invest
so much and then just have to start all over again??
WHAT I'M DOING WITH MY LIFE
I love to explore, visit, day trips
to find a new gastro pub, even window shop new places. I like to go out to dinner at least one night per week and then some event or activity every other weekend such as to visit Baltimore, Annapolis, or Alexandria. I love movies, so I'll watch a couple per week--subscriber of Netflix. I am gainfully employed and also own a small startup company online. I work a regular 8-4:30/weekdays.
One interesting little project that I just finished is
translating a friend's book from Spanish for publication in
English called La Ley Universal de la Atraccion y La
Travesia de Maite
interesting subject matter! In fact, it's now available on
Universal Law of Attraction - Maite's Journey of Discovery
I'M REALLY GOOD AT
- seeing all sides of a debate;
- blending in diverse settings;
- learning anything by watching someone do it;
- getting to the true essence of a person and understanding their view;
- helping to solve problems and optimize;
- avoiding things I have to do :)
- lightening up (balancing) intense moments;
- connecting very deeply with one special person;
- committing to one special person!
THE FIRST THING(S) PEOPLE USUALLY NOTICE ABOUT ME
glasses, smile, nice guy, takes a minute to warm up then also funny, clever,
insightful, and deep.
MY FAVORITE BOOKS, MOVIES, MUSIC, AND FOOD
I like a range of tastes in all things...
Foods: gourmet, spicy, even fast foods, but
Music: alternative, new age,
techo/house/electronica, rock, classical, jazz,
salsa--Delerium, Enigma, Gotan Project, Jean-Michel Jarre,
Moby, NIN, Pink Floyd, Tori Amos...(too many to mention)
On Saturday nights I blast 'house' music, so I guess I have to
say that's my fav.
Movies: romantic comedies, action flicks,
mystery/thriller, drama--Amadeus, American President, Bourne
Identity(all 3), Definitely,Maybe, Ferris Bueller, Finding
Nemo, Good Will Hunting, Grosse Pointe Blank, Grand Canyon, The
Holiday, LA Story, Match Point, Midnight in Paris, My Big Fat Greek Wedding,
National Treasure(both), Spanish Prisoner, Vicky Cristina Barcelona,
if I had to pick my ultimate metaphor for who I am and what
I'm seeking, it would be When Harry Met
Sally for its humor, wit, insight, and ultimate love
TV: 24, 2.5 Men, Bill Maher, Californication,
Colbert Report, CSI Miami, Dexter, Entourage, ER, House, West
Last read: news web sites, "Defend the
Realm: Authorized History of MI5" by Christopher Andrew;
"At the Center of the Storm" by George Tenet;
"Takeover: The Return of the Imperial Presidency and the
Subversion of American Democracy"; "In Defense of
Food"; Budget Travel mag, The Economist, Natl. Enq
Favorite destinations: (so far) France,
Bermuda, Disney World, and Toronto. also been to Brazil,
Venezuela, Mexico, muchas de las islas del Caribe.
Next on list: Tuscany, Florence,
Barcelona, Sevilla, and Napa again.
THE SIX THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUT
1> family&friends; b) health; III] the internet; air;
sex(really, physical intimacy). and GPS.
On the other hand, things I could do without!!
Brussel sprouts, gin, retsina wine, slasher movies,
smoking(anything), lawn ornaments.
I SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT
ON A TYPICAL FRIDAY NIGHT I AM
@home cooking/watching a movie. I have to admit--I'm not a fan of standing
in lines; why not go out on a Tuesday or Thursday and get right in?!
THE MOST PRIVATE THING I'M WILLING TO ADMIT HERE
I've actually had cat
scratch fever once; it wasn't
really anything much--just swollen glands and it passed in a few days (many
I use composite astrology to predict, with
amazing accuracy and insight, how a relationship will probably
go with a potential mate. So far they've always proved to
be 100% accurate! I'll be happy to do a composite profile
for you and a relationship you have or had; just send me two
YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME IF
My Perfect Match will be ...
- Warm, playful,
affectionate], responsible, savvy, spiritual, adventurous, youthful,
and attractive (to
- Loves to travel/explore, wine/dine,
and many many other things. My ideal is to take turns choosing/planning
things to do because we both love trying/doing new/different things;
- Cares to be healthy in all of
mind, body, and spirit (not just a slogan);
- A natural beauty, strong>a great smile, and a long dark mane (as long as I'm idealizing :)
- non-smoker, or hasn't in a very long time!
- Doesn't want or already has children;
- Preferably between 40 and 56